Welcome
Welcome to my website. I'm glad you could stop by. Here you will find information about me and the services I offer as a licensed psychotherapist.
I work from a relational Jungian perspective integrating other approaches as may be helpful. Much of what happens in therapy is about understanding you, exploring what matters to you and about helping you discover fulfillment and meaning in your life.
Even though I am a believer in depth work, I am interactive and quite obviously engaged with you. I believe I provide a very safe, empathic and nonjudgmental space where you are free to find and hear your own voice. I tend to see possibility when for one reason or another you can't.
I really enjoy this work and find that laughter can be an important component of therapy.
The ultimate goal is something Jung calls individuation, being who you were meant to be, both as an individual and in relationship.
Although the bulk of my practice is individual adult psychotherapy, I also see and enjoy working with couples. The same above principles apply, but the focus is on the relationship as well as the individuals within it. As I get older, I particularly enjoy working with young people.
Recently, I have become certified as a distance counselor, and some of my practice is becoming web-based.
Over my thirty plus years of practice, I have developed an interest in gender and it's intersection with individual identity, culture and education. As such, along with my general practice, I have a subspecialty of working with transgender people and their families. In addition, I specialize in cross-cultural identities and addiction related concerns.
I also serve as a consultant and do presentations and media work in my areas of expertise.
About Lin
Dr. Lin Fraser has an EdD in Counseling Psychology from the University of San Francisco, an M.A. in Counseling from San Francisco State and a B.A. in Psychology from Duke.
She is licensed as a Marriage and Family Therapist in California (MFT8288) and is certified as a National Certified Counselor (NCC17402). She is also certified as a Distance Certified Counselor (DCC553) and is trained in online therapy.
She has been in private practice in the same location for over 30 years.
In addition to her general psychotherapy practice, she has developed an international reputation as a leading expert in transgender identity issues. She currently serves as President -Elect of WPATH (World Professional Association for Transgender Health). She is on the Standards of Care Committee with responsibilities for developing revised standards for adult psychotherapy and web-based care. She is also on the editorial board of the International Journal of Transgenderism and is co-editor of inhouse communications.
Dr. Fraser has also developed an expertise in addiction-related concerns, combining the 12-Step Approach with psychodynamic and Jungian theory and therapy.
Compatible with her extensive international background and facility with cross-cultural issues, many of her clients identify as expats or are bicultural.
Her general background is fairly broad, encompassing work in university teaching, training and supervision of master's and doctoral- level psychology, counseling and theology students, as well as psychiatry residents.
She has a history of working in community mental health, doing corporate training, serving as an expert witness, presenting at conferences and workshops, doing interviews for media -films, TV, radio and print, and serving on various committees for her professional associations.
She has developed and taught text and video training materials in counseling and intercultural communication skills for an international airline. In addition to psychotherapy, Dr. Fraser offers workshops, corporate training, and academic classes and is available as an expert witness or consultant to attorneys in her area of expertise.
She also serves as a consultant on issues relating to boy education to an independent boys school.
Philosophy
Central to me is an individual's authority over his or her own life tempered with compassion for others and the recognition that there are many different ways of living an authentic life. Therapy is about making a deep connection with another human being on a path of exploration and understanding about how best to live that life.
For me, this philosophy developed as an outgrowth and mix of temperament, background, education and lifelong travel. Extraverted, curious about people, and living overseas as a child, I developed an ease with other languages and cultures, along with a respect and comfort with diversity and transcending categories.
I began these explorations as an infant. We moved to the UK when I was six months old and I was one of the youngest transatlantic passengers in the early days of international airplane travel. I lived in Brazil during adolescence. After university, I became a flight attendant, course developer and trainer in communication and intercultural communication for an international airline, combining service, travel, grad school and eventually a psychotherapy internship in the San Francisco Mission District. I also worked in healthcare, trekking to remote mountain villages in Nepal. Hence, from a young age, I was exposed to a wide range of humanity and found universal connections to the world and its people. I also learned how to negotiate comfortably in other people's spaces and cultures.
I developed a love for listening to people's stories, narratives of their lives, their adaptations, responses and in many cases, resilience, in sometimes very difficult situations. I began to appreciate certain universals among people, the capacity for love, empathy, wisdom and the importance of developing an internal compass to negotiate the inner and outer landscape of a life. Along the way, I learned there are many ways of seeing the same thing, and that no individual, group or culture has the last word on how best to live a life, especially someone else's.
Along with that interest in people, I also developed a fascination with synthesizing and building theory as well as applying integrated and new theory to practice. This interest has actually served me in various milieus, whether adapting counseling theory to course development for international flight attendant training, applying contemporary male gender identity development theory to statement of philosophy and strategic planning for boy single-sex education, or adapting assumptions underlying psychodynamic theory to fit transgender people's lived experience.
Most importantly, however, is the benefit of the love and wise counsel I've received from others along the way. I've had many good teachers, both formal and informal and I continue to have an excellent and varied education. I spent 12 invaluable years in Jungian analysis with a kind and brilliant man. I am especially indebted to the wisdom, insight and encouragement of author, activist and analyst Jean Shinoda Bolen M.D., who has been my mentor and consultant for the past 20 years.
These experiences and values are, of course, brought to the therapy relationship and my primary interest remains doing therapy. I have an extraverted attitude, apparently unusual for a Jungian, and the best fit, I've found, in my practice, is with people interested in long-term depth work who are engaged in finding meaning in their lives.
Most likely due to my background, I am not particularly focused on pathology and instead strive to understand. I am deeply interested in the narrative and the connections in a story, both conscious and unconscious, and the overall arc that makes sense of and provides an anchoring point for a life. I am comfortable with mystery and and can easily sit with the sometimes-long vicissitudes and repetitions of the psyche.
I like working with people's strengths. I am in awe of the courage, love and commitment I witness everyday. I am daily blessed by the remarkable people in my practice.
Winnicott's comment, which rang true to me when I first read it, captures the flavor of the process as I experience it. Winnicott writes "Psychotherapy is not making clever and apt interpretations; by and large it is a long-term giving back what the patient brings. It is a complex derivative of the face that reflects what is there to be seen" Even when our patients do not get cured, they are grateful to us for seeing them as they are, and this gives us satisfaction of a deep kind.(Goldman on Winnicott, 2002).
Contact Us
Address: 2538 California St
(btw Steiner and Pierce)
San Francisco, Ca 94115
Phone: (415) 922-9240
E-mail: linfraser@aol.com
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