Benefits of Psychotherapy for the Transgender Client
The following is a more subjective exposition about psychotherapy, (thoughts from the writers’ more than 30 years clinical experience) written for the person contemplating psychotherapy and for the therapist working with or contemplating working with transgender people.
Psychotherapy is not a prerequisite for referrals for medical interventions and in many ways, is independent of the assessment and evaluation requirements of the SOC. Psychotherapy involves a deeply interpersonal and subjective relationship between two people, the client and the therapist, focused on the needs and goals of the client during a usually transitional (in the broadest sense of the word) period of their life. This involves a process of (Pfafflin, 2007) listening closely: acknowledging the distress, fears, and hopes of the client and together exploring the direction to take. This may, under some circumstances, include assessment and referral, but does not do so in a substantive way.
The transgendered person seeks therapy for the same reason as does anyone else, to sort out difficulties within a compassionate, safe, nonjudgmental and neutral environment. Yet, the transgender path involves a unique journey, one with quite specific potential obstacles. The transgender specialist knows a good deal about this particular path and can help the client negotiate the difficulties and along the way.
Specific challenges include finding and hearing one’s authentic voice, and learning to express an identity and negotiate relationships independent of external pressures, both from the wider community and even from within the transgender community. With more available choices and individual variation along the transgender path, the importance of the safety within the therapy relationship to sort out myriad options cannot be overestimated.
A major aspect of healthy identity development involves being seen and mirrored authentically, and for the transgender person, this may occur for the first time in psychotherapy. An identity does not develop in a vacuum, yet for many transgender people, their sense of self in a gendered way has developed internally and in secret and hasn’t had the opportunity to be in relationship. The therapy environment provides:
- a space to develop the client’s authentic narrative
- a space to be seen, heard and mirrored, without stigma, with compassion
- a space to retrieve the lost soul
- the instillation of hope, one of the foremost tasks of psychotherapy
Depending upon the situation and the needs of the client, a good therapist is a mirror , a guide, an ally, an advocate, a steadying hand and a stable consistent image that can be internalized during the therapy and beyond. The benefits can last indefinitely.
Lin Fraser EdD- from paper on Psychotherapy in the Standards of Care
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